Fillin that void.

I have a few friends (both girls and guys) who never seem to be able to be 'Single' for long. They have a tendency of jumping from one relationship to another. As a spectator, I'm exhausted just watchin, 'em, do that. It seems to me as if they are in search of fillin an empty void that the last relationship had left with them.

To me, I don't think that anyone is able to complete another. Love isn't about completing one person as a whole, you can't complete someone's life because those aren't the right reasons to find Love or that special someone. It is when you are able to complete yourself as one, and capable of standin on your own, when you are able to have someone stand with you.

People are always in search for The One. Are they searchin for the right reasons? More often than not, we are lookin for something because we feel as though something is missing. Whether you're in a relationship or not. How are you able to find the missing thing when you're not even sure what you're lookin for. We try harder to find that missing thing in hopes for someone to help find what you're missing, but how can someone be sure that what's been missing was inside yourself this whole time. How does another person help find what you've lost within yourself?

Some things never change...hehe

Our Friendship

People walk in, People walk out. If you're lucky, some of 'em stay for a lifetime, but others may just be a layover.

At the height of a friendship, you may be inseparable. But how many friendships sustain a constant height? What goes up, always comes down. You might fall out, you may still be friends but it won't ever be the same. 

Our friendship never had a height, our friendship is limitless and goes far out and beyond.

Our Story, Our Friendship...like no other would understand:

Great friends take care of you when you are drunk & out cold.

Best friends are crashed out right next to you on the floor while you're on the couch.

Great friends stay over at your place for the weekend.

Best friends stay over at your place for the weekend even when you're not in the Country.

Great friends ask you for advice when they have lost their ways.

Best friends ask your Mom for advice when they have lost their ways.

Great friends tell each other when they don't think that person is right for 'em and to not risk it.

Best friends tell each other that person ain't right for 'em, we still go for 'em and when they're right. We laugh it off.

Great friends take you home after curfew & gets you in trouble.

Best friends take you home after curfew, gets you in trouble & comes back in 5 hours to take you to the airport.

Great friends jump in to be your last minute prom date.

Best friends jump in to be your Sister's last minute prom date.

Great friends fight and argue over something stupid in public.

Best friends fight and argue in public just for the hell of it.

Boyfriends come and go, Girlfriends never stay around long enough for the ride...but you my dear are a lifetime.

Vulnerability

"If tears can help mend a broken heart, you should just pour it all out. Tears are like the blood that leaks from your broken heart. Cry it all out & your heart will do the healing."-JKwan

A friend of mine just had her heart broken last night, and hasn't stopped cryin, not understandin why or how it all happened... That is just the beginning of a lifelong shield that will be formed around the wounded heart.

Hearts are broken countless amount of times a day all around the world. Some heal faster then others, some seek another person's affection to conceal the pain, some cry their hearts out hoping to still be in the arms of the heartbreaker wantin to hear that 'everything's going to be alright'. But no matter how hard you cry, no matter how many people you try to seek comfort in, deep down your heart is still shattered into broken pieces. There is no remedy to ease this pain, there's no glue strong enough to stick the pieces back together and there will always be a flaw you can't polish out.
After a heart's been broken, the brave ones never give up and try again. The guarded ones pretend that they don't have a care in the world and won't dare to give their hearts out again. Then there are the ones that never healed, ones that can never be left alone for they are afraid of standin on their own...

Some people wonder why it's so hard to break down walls and barriers some people have, built around their hearts. Everyone's got a story, maybe reading between the lines will solve their mysteries...

TeenageDream

“Maybe the reason why I haven’t found who I’ve been searching for is because I know that I’ve already found him. It’s just up to him to say whether I am who he has been waiting for..." (Quoted)

I've often asked how people know whether they're in love or how they know "He/She's the One". I've asked one of my friends how she knew he was the one. At the moment of questioning, she could almost put her own life on the table to prove her love for him...but when the love fades & the attraction is gone, 7 years really doesn't mean anythin at all...

Recently, I've realized that some things and some people are maybe kinda 'meant' to be in our lives. And that it doesn't matter how far you've gone, how many people you've met or how long it's been, we somehow cross paths with them down the road if they're meant to be in our lives. Does that mean we're given a second chance? And if we take it, does it mean they're suppose to be the one? What if you took this chance, only to discover that this was just a crossing path you both happened to cross together, but don't arrive to the same destination. Is that just fate playin games with us? Or is it a chance we're suppose to be willing to take...